Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Vernon McGarvey

Reverend Vernon McGarvey, 64, of Moberly, died Sunday, September 25, 2011, at his home surrounded by his family.  After a diagnosis of terminal colon cancer, he enjoyed two pain-free years with his family and friends, traveling to the Middle East and Europe.  He was able to see his first two grandchildren born during this miraculous time.

Vernon Donald McGarvey, a native of St. Louis, Missouri, was born October 15, 1946.  He married Glynnda M. Taylor of Beaumont, TX in 1972 and was very proud of his two children, Scott and Jaime, both of Moberly and their spouses, Suzi and Johnathan.  He dearly loved his grandchildren, Cooper and Heidi.  Pastor McGarvey was preceded in death by his mother, Pearl Mueller McGarvey.  He leaves behind his father, Don McGarvey, step-mother, Pat of Maryland Heights, three sisters, Helen and Len Licata of O’Fallon, Janet and Mike Derr of Hartford, CT, Margie and Mark McClintock of St. Charles, two brothers-in-law, Ted Taylor of New York City and Ray Taylor of Houston, Texas, nieces, nephews, and a host of friends.

The pastor of Apostolic Pentecostal Church in Moberly since 1988, he was an ordained minister of the United Pentecostal Church, International (UPCI). 

In 1970, Pastor McGarvey graduated from Texas Bible College, Houston, Texas where he received a bachelor degree of Theology. He came to Moberly after serving as the manager of Christian bookstores in Houston, Texas and Hazelwood, Missouri.  He has also served congregations in Granby and Coventry, Connecticut.  A writer of religious studies, he served on the Curriculum Committee developing teaching materials for the UPCI.

He was the current president of the Randolph County Ministerial Alliance, as well as on the Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Scholarship Fund board and was also the coordinator for the Blanket Project in Randolph County.  Vernon had served as district chaplain for Christian Prisoner Fellowship in Missouri and as a board member of the Missouri Correctional Chaplains and Volunteers Association.  He served as both secretary and director of the UPCI Missouri District Home Missions Department for 16 years.  He ministered in hospitals, local retirement and assisted living facilities throughout the area.

Pastor McGarvey was happiest working in his yard, playing with Cooper & Heidi, ministering from the pulpit or at a kitchen table teaching a Bible study.  He enjoyed reading about current events and far-away places.  He spent countless hours mentoring young ministers and counseling those in need.  He was loved by many and remembered most for his pearls of wisdom and encyclopedic knowledge of the Scripture.  Even in his last moments, he was dispensing encouragement and guidance to those visiting him.


Monday, September 26, 2011

Dad's Final Event

Thank you for all the kind messages and calls we've received over the past 24 hours.  If we haven't returned a call or text it's only because of the deluge of information we're pushing through over here.  Know we appreciate and share them with the rest of the family.

The arrangements for Dad's Final Event are as follows:

Visitation
Wednesday,
September 28th, 4 - 7PM

Funeral
Thursday,
September 29th, 7PM

All events will be hosted at:
411 Union Ave
Moberly, MO 65270
(660) 263-7284

Interment at Oakland Cemetery on Friday, September, 30th, proceeding from Pathway Memorial at 1PM.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be sent to
Apostolic Pentecostal Church
2197 Six Mile Lane
Moberly, MO  65270

For those who are determined to send flowers (even though Mom's house is filled with plants already), our preferred florist is:
517 W. Reed
Moberly, MO 65270
(660)263-4242
(877)263-4243

Sunday, September 25, 2011

The End of an Era


It's over.

And now we start again.

Dad returns to the Lodge

Throughout this entire process Dad has been fairly insistent that he go home. He did not want to stay in the hospital. After spending the evening chatting, we gave Dad some quiet time. This morning around 2AM, I noticed Dad's breathing had gotten longer. When we tried to talk to him, he didn't respond immediately. Over the next few hours his responses became farther apart. By 8AM there was no response to our questions and he seemed to be in a deep sleep. We made the decision to move him home and the great folks at Boone transported him late this morning. When the ambulance pulled into his street, Dad's oxygen level jumped. He knew he was home. Now, he is tucked into bed and surrounded by the STL clan. His breathing is pretty shallow and his grip isn't as strong. We're waiting with him as he prepares for one final trip.

Message from Dad

As any good pastor, Dad wanted to send an update to his church family about his condition.  The following clip will be played at APC in Moberly on Sunday evening.


The Saga Continues...

Around 3AM Friday morning, Dad woke up with severe abdominal pain.  By 9AM, the family decided it was time to go to the ER.  Boone Hospital staff did their best to make Dad comfortable throughout the day on Friday.  Gayle, one of the nurses, said getting the pain under control was like chasing a train.  Late  in the evening, the amount of pain meds in his drip finally reached a level that he was able to sleep.  When he called me early Saturday morning, it sounded like the dad I knew.  But the report was from a world we'd hoped to have left behind us.

Throughout the day on Friday and Saturday, Dad went through a battery of tests, pokes and prods.  These are the results:

Complete renal failure
A mass on the liver
Abdominal fluid buildup
Internal bleeding

The pain is probably caused by tumors getting wrapped around nerve fibers.  His creatinine levels showed  the kidneys shutting down and by Friday night, he was no longer producing urine.  The doctors on Friday initially gave Dad a survival rate of 1-3 weeks.  Based on our most recent lab results Saturday afternoon, we have revised that estimation to one week.

Tonight we have gone to a pain patch that will possibly replace the IV drip.  If it controls the pain tonight, Dad will go home on Sunday and hospice will take over for the duration of his care.

We are praying for God's perfect Will throughout this situation.  We trust Him to lead us.

We will update the blog continuously as information is available.  Due to Dad's condition, we are limiting his visitors.  Thank you for your understanding.

Throughout the day, some of the St. Louis clan stopped by along with Matthew & Becca Johnson and others.  Tonight the four of us are camped out in Dad's room with a box of Shakespeare's trying to recreate the kitchen table atmosphere so many of you have experienced over the years at the Lodge.  There are more pictures over here...